Independent Play

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Often, parents can feel like they are responsible for their child’s entertainment. Just a scroll through Pinterest or Instagram can make a parent feel like they need to set up engaging activities that span from wake up time to bed time. This can leave parents feeling drained and guilty. It’s ok for children to experience boredom! It’s ok for them to be responsible for their own fun. Independent play boosts confidence, supports cognitive development and creativity.

Here are a few tips to encourage independent play at home:

  • Observe. When you notice your child is playing independently, what are they playing with? Take note of the things already in your environment that inspire independent play and build on it. Does your child play independently with art materials? Add some new art supplies to their stash. Does your child love to dress up and engage in imaginative play? Add a few new costumes to their collection.

  • Take it slow. Start small by offering your child their own activity that they can work on right next to you. Use phrases like: “I’m doing my work while you do yours.” Build on your child playing right next to you to them playing across the room to them playing in their own space.

  • Offer quality time. Before encouraging independent play, offer quality one on one time, even if it’s just for a few minutes. Read a book or play a game. Give lots of cuddles. Listen to their stories. Look into their eyes. This connection will make them feel more confident to venture off on their own.